Parents(PET)
20080607 | | |Parents (PET)
Parents are often blamed but yet to be trained. Parents need to learn some effective methods for modifying behavior that interferes with their needs, but labeling the child as misbehaving is not one of them.
From this workshops parents will learn how to practise :
- To be Good listener (Active listening) : feeling understood
- My messages : understand me
- I'm OK : You're OK : understanding
- Empathy : I am with you, you are not alone
- The win-win method : nobody loses
- Theraputic communication : feeling accepted
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When people are accepted, when they are free to express themselves and can participate in making decisions that affect them, they enjoy greater self-esteem, are more self-confident, and lose a sense of powerlessness that's always present in autocratic families.
"Anak remaja tidak memberontak terhadap orang tua mereka, tetapi memberontak terhadap beberapa metodologi tertentu yang bersifat merosak yang sering dipakai oleh orang tua mereka"
Good luck
Muhibbah Guidance & Counselling